Would you repeat a road opener or make it more specific?

If the ritual feels useful to you, I’d keep it simple rather than making it stronger or stacking more workings on top. You could focus on openness to mutual, steady connections, then pair that with practical steps like following up with people you enjoy and making room for new social settings.

The timing may feel meaningful, but it doesn’t prove what caused the changes. You can respect the ritual’s place in your life without putting every relationship outcome on it.

Leaving home can change a lot at once: who you see, how supported you feel, and what family pressures are around you. That doesn’t mean you caused the relationship problems, or that there’s one hidden explanation. It may help to look at the endings one by one and notice whether there are any shared circumstances or patterns, without forcing them into a single story.

Since you’ve already put effort into therapy, you don’t have to treat this as a sign that you missed something. A trusted counselor could still be useful for sorting through specific relationship experiences if you want that, not as a verdict about you.

I wouldn’t make the intention “get married” or focus it on a particular person. That can put a lot of pressure on an uncertain outcome. If you choose to do another working, wording around welcoming reciprocal relationships and recognizing incompatibility sooner seems more grounded. And it’s also fine to pause if you’re tired of spending energy on rituals.