A coworker says they can read people and has brought personal impressions into workplace conversations. I’m uncomfortable and want to keep my own privacy. What’s a practical way to handle it?
How do I set a boundary with a coworker who says they can read people?
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Keep it plain and direct: “I don’t want personal readings or comments about me at work. Please stop.” You don’t have to debate whether the ability is real. If they bring it up again, repeat the boundary and end the conversation.
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I’d focus on what you can actually observe. If they’re sharing private information, making unwanted comments, or involving a manager, note what happened and when, and keep any relevant messages. If it continues, raise those specific behaviors with a manager or HR, following your workplace’s usual process.
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Trying to find a perfect shielding technique could make this feel bigger and harder to manage. There’s no reliable way to verify that someone is psychically scrutinizing you, but you can limit personal conversations, avoid sharing details you’d rather keep private, and ask them not to discuss you in that way.
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