I dated a guy for almost 6 months, but we broke up about 2 months ago. Recently, I've noticed that he reconnected with his ex-girlfriend, who he dated six years ago and has always called his 'lost love'—she apparently vanished back then due to her family's decision. To make sense of the situation, I decided to pull some tarot cards about his feelings and our connection. Here's what I pulled:
For his relationship with her:
- Five of Cups
- The Devil (suggesting he's obsessed?)
- Ace of Pentacles
- King of Swords
- Six of Wands (feels like a proposal is in the works)
Then I asked about me and him, and I got:
- Nine of Swords (definitely some sleepless nights for me)
- Seven of Cups
- Strength
- The Hierophant
Can anyone explain what this reading might mean?
3 Answers
Sometimes you just gotta let them be. If he's going back to her, that might be his way of dealing with things. Focus on yourself right now; you've got a lot going on. Just remember, it's okay to move forward without his baggage!
Yeah, you're spot on with your readings! It sounds like his return to his ex is more about avoiding feelings rather than true emotional growth. He’s probably just trying to fill the void after the breakup with you. These types of situations often turn out to be codependent because they're based on fear of being alone rather than actual love. As for you, he might see you as the one he should be with, but he's stuck juggling his guilt and regret. Keep your head held high; you deserve better!
It sounds like he's chasing his own misery with that Five of Cups! He might be feeling a compulsive itch for a superficial win while holding on to memories of the past. It seems like he's looking for affirmation but it's not really healthy, right? As for you, that Nine of Swords definitely suggests you’re losing sleep over the whole thing. He might want to follow traditional paths, but it looks more like he’s caught up in a confusing mess he’s created. Don't waste your time worrying about him!
Loving your take on this! I found the "nasty itch" phrase so funny; it totally caught me off guard! 😂 But I think you’ve nailed the vibe of the reading.