Can a spell change how someone feels about you?

People have different beliefs about what magic can do, but there’s no dependable way to make another person feel or act a certain way. If ritual matters to you, you could frame it around your own intentions, like finding clarity, patience, or a chance for an honest conversation, rather than trying to control their feelings.

Someone’s boundaries still count, even if you hope things can change. If they’ve asked for distance, give it to them. If contact is welcome, a brief, sincere apology or a calm invitation to talk is more concrete than expecting a spell to create compassion. They may still choose not to reconnect.