I've recently moved in with my partner, and she's suggested placing our individual deity altars next to each other in our bedroom. However, I'm feeling more inclined to keep them apart, maybe even in different rooms. What do you all think?
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Creating three separate altars might be a great idea! One for you, one for her, and maybe a shared one for home or family. This way, you both have your own space without having to compromise on each other's personal styles or preferences. It’s important to keep those individual connections with your deities, and it can help maintain balance in your relationship.
I’ve learned to avoid mixing pantheons unless you get permission from the deities involved. If you both practice Norse traditions, a shared altar is fine, no offense will be taken. But if you’re different, like you do Norse and she practices Toltec beliefs, it's better to keep them apart to respect the traditions. Trust me, mixing can create some confusing energies!
That's a bit superstitious for my taste! Many ancient religions were pretty syncretic right from the start. Altars are usually for our benefit, so I feel like it's okay to have a blend if it works for both of you!